“Blessing”

Small-Group Session (2 of 2)

 

 

 

“Blessing”

Small-Group Session (2 of 2)

Set-Up

Before the session starts, the leader should set chairs in a circle, with a chalice and matches on a small table in the middle, or somewhere visible to participants.  Make sure the strips of paper for “Readings from the Common Bowl” are in the bowl.  Welcome people, and allow folks to settle before lighting the chalice.

 

Chalice Lighting and Opening Words

The group leader lights the chalice (or asks someone else to) and then, with the intent of creating sacred space, plays the following video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=63&v=HjOioWTVAl4

Be one another’s refuge

Sanctuary

Haven in this storm.

So may we be each to the other.

 

Brief Check-In

Invite each person, in turn, to share a brief answer to the check-in question.  The check-in question is: “Where have you experienced a blessing since we last met?  Where have you experienced struggle?”

 

Readings from the common bowl

The leader passes around the bowl, with strips of paper that have quotes on them.  Invites each person to take one strip/quote out of the bowl. Then, invites each to read the quotes.  They don’t have to read in order, one right next to the last one.  But instead, invite them to allow some silence after every quote, and then to see if the quote they picked out of the bowl should go next or not.  (See additional page for quotes; these are the quotes that will be torn into separate strips, and put in the bowl before the meeting)

 

Focusing Question

After everyone has read the different statements, the leader asks the central question that will guide the session’s discussion: “In your understanding, what does blessing mean and how could you bless the world?”

 

First Round

Leader invites attendees to take no more than 2 minutes to share a response to the question.  Find a way to gently hold the group to the no-more-than-2-minute limit.  Also, let people know there’s no cross-talk to the responses: group-members don’t answer the statements people make.  One person speaks for oneself, then the next person does the same.  It’s not a conversation, so much as a series of statements. Again, each with some silence or space between. And, again, voices don’t need to go in order, with people sitting beside each other speaking—just as the spirit moves.

 

Silence

After hearing everyone’s statements, the leader invites the group to sit in silence for 2-3 minutes.  This is not time for them to plan what they’ll say.  It’s time to sit and be present, to let whatever comes up, come up.

 

Second round, reflections on what was heard, with additional thoughts

Whereas in the first round, attendees were encouraged to stick to their own thoughts, here in the second round, people can respond to some of what they heard.  Again, encourage brevity—whether a formal 2-minute limit is enforced or not, encourage the conversation to move from one place to another in the circle, not getting dragged down to one or two voices who speak at length.  It’s OK for people to respond to each other’s comments.

 

Likes and wishes

The leader asks for people to share, as they’re moved, what they liked about the session, and what they wish for next time, that they may or may not have experienced this time.

 

Closing Words & Extinguishing the Chalice

Choose to Bless the World by Rebecca Parker

 

Your gifts—whatever you discover them to be—

can be used to bless or curse the world.

The mind's power,

The strength of the hands,

The reaches of the heart,

The gift of speaking, listening, imagining, seeing, waiting

 

Any of these can serve to feed the hungry,

Bind up wounds,

Welcome the stranger,

Praise what is sacred,

Do the work of justice

Or offer love.

 

Any of these can draw down the prison door,

Hoard bread,

Abandon the poor,

Obscure what is holy,

Comply with injustice

Or withhold love.

 

You must answer this question:

What will you do with your gifts?

 

Choose to bless the world.

The choice to bless the world can take you into solitude

To search for the sources of power and grace;

Native wisdom, healing, and liberation.

 

More, the choice will draw you into community,

The endeavor shared,

The heritage passed on,

The companionship of struggle,

The importance of keeping faith,

The life of ritual and praise,

The comfort of human friendship,

The company of earth

The chorus of life welcoming you.

 

None of us alone can save the world.

Together—that is another possibility waiting.

 (extinguish chalice)

 


Quotes for The Common Bowl

 

“An enchanted love, an awakened love, between two people is a blessing on the entire world.”

- Marianne Williamson
 

“We sing a little song before we eat, a little blessing before we eat, and it's really - we're thanking the Lord and the Earth for the food that we eat, and it really brings you together in a profound kind of way.”

-Phil Lesh
 

“Every great dream begins with a dreamer. Always remember, you have within you the strength, the patience, and the passion to reach for the stars to change the world.”

-Harriet Tubman

 

“We need to be politically engaged, but peculiar in how we engage. Jesus and the early Christians had a marvelous political imagination. They turned all the presumptions and ideas of power and blessing upside down.”

-Shane Claiborne
 

“To give someone a blessing is the most significant affirmation we can offer.”

-Henri Nouwen

 

“Give light and people will find the way.”

-Ella Baker

 

“To be always in a state of wonder is a kind of sensitivity that can sometimes be an extraordinary blessing and sometimes a real pain.”

-Holly Near
 

“Just to be is a blessing. Just to live is holy.”

- Abraham Joshua Heschel

 

“Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure.”

 -Oprah Winfrey

 

“Learn to get in touch with the silence within yourself, and know that everything in life has purpose. There are no mistakes, no coincidences, all events are blessings given to us to learn from.”

-Elisabeth Kubler-Ross